What Emotions Can Teach Us

What Emotions Can Teach Us

Recently I heard a brilliant quote about emotions: “Our feelings are a lot like toddlers, we can’t let them drive, but we also can’t put them in the trunk.” So how do we do that, really? How do we listen to our emotions? What can they teach us?

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Self-Care Lessons from Regenerative Braking

Self-Care Lessons from Regenerative Braking

My family recent got our first electric vehicle. It’s been fun to get used to all the new ways EV’s work and gamify our commute to see how much battery we use or save. One of the exciting features of hybrids and electric vehicles is the concept of regenerative braking. It’s normal and good to need times to stop and recharge our batteries (this is part of why the importance of sleep cannot be overemphasized for our mental and physical wellbeing). Between re-charges, regenerative braking offers us a more holistic, and often realistic path forward. Our daily lives are full of moments that require us expending energy, and moments that restore our energy, sometimes even in the same experience! Self-care following regenerative braking encourages us to keep a mindful balance of our internal battery life, pushing and exerting when required, and then leaning into something restoring or slowing down

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A Bay Area Therapist’s Top Sex & Sexuality Book Recommendations

A Bay Area Therapist’s Top Sex & Sexuality Book Recommendations

Merely attending a 50 minute session each week isn’t going to magically change your life. The winning combination is a willingness to do the work both in AND out of session. Adding some therapy books for processing is a great way to assist your growth. Here are a therapist's top recommended books about sex.

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A Therapist’s Top Marriage & Parenting Book Recommendations

A Therapist’s Top Marriage & Parenting Book Recommendations

Merely attending a 50 minute session each week isn’t going to magically change your life. The winning combination is a willingness to do the work both in AND out of session. Adding some therapy books for processing is a great way to assist your growth. Here are a therapist's top recommended books for marriage and parenting.

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Reciprical Relationships: How to Take Up More Space in Relationships

The idea of “taking up space” may feel a bit confusing. Imagine “manspreading” - that guy on BART who is sitting with his legs spread, even though the train is crowded, leaving those next to him squished to make themselves smaller. Ladies, I know you know.

That same idea can be true relationally.

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