Therapy for Partners of Sex Addicts in Dublin, CA

In the blink of an eye, your life was turned upside down. One text message, one receipt, one lie that blew his secret. Ever since discovery that your husband is a sex addict, you can’t focus in your daily life and are constantly on the verge of tears or anger. You can’t stop the images in your head. Suddenly you don’t recognize the person you sleep next to. 

You hadn’t even heard of sex addiction therapy, and honestly you’re still not sure if it’s all just an excuse for bad behavior. 

You didn’t know your partner was capable of level of deception and betrayal. Sure, he seemed a little distant. But life in the Bay Area is busy, you thought it was normal relationship stuff. Everyone tells you how awesome he is, how lucky you are. If only they knew he was a sex addict.

I help betrayed partners after the discovery of problematic compulsive sexual behavior, sex addiction, or porn addiction.

You didn’t deserve this & it’s not your fault. It's his job to find help for sex addiction. But now you need to heal and take care of yourself amids the betrayal trauma. I take a trauma informed approach to your healing. I offer practical tools for self-care, boundaries & managing betrayal trauma triggers connected to sex addiction to help you get through the day. We will work towards deeper betrayal trauma recovery, including navigating a formal therapeutic disclosure process. Together we will sort through your shock, help you set boundaries rather than empty ultimatums, and walk through the next steps.

You can find healing.

Many partners of sex addicts suffer in isolation. You don’t need to suffer alone. I’d love to help you navigate the next steps after you discover your husband is a sex addict. Click here to schedule your free 15- minute phone consultation for betrayal trauma counseling in Dublin. Our other specialties include anxiety therapy, EMDR, and faith based counseling.